Di bawah adalah petikan yang saya ambil dari FB wall seorang sahabat saya... moga ia bermanfaat dan memberi peringatan buat kita semua.. apapun setiap perkongsian adalah ingatan buat diri sendiri.. kita manusia tiada yang sempurna. Maka bersangka baik dan pasrah atas segalam ...moga Allah redha Allah buat kita semua..
Assalammualaikum , This is something that was shared by my niece on her wall, and I think there is a lot of truth in it, I hope you don;t mind my passing it on to you..It is nice to share your happiness with others. Especially today, as life is n open diary with the advancement of facebook. However please remember.. (Nope, not trying to be a spoil sport, just reminding..)
1. Your happiness might be other's sadness.. The story of the birth of your child that day, might be the death of another on the same day.. The story of your hearty meal at a restaurant, might be just another simple dinner to let the dat pass by to your neighbour next door.. The healthy growth of your child, might be another story of poor developement of someone else's.. The story of your birthday bash, your holidays, your happiness might mean financial constraint to others.. The storybof you getting another baby might be the struggle of trying to conceive, the story of your new car or house or whatever might be the loss of another..
2. Share but remember, be empathy towards others who might not be in the same awesome situation you might be in..
3. Share and remember.. Why are you sharing your stories.. ?Everything has a "why" either it's to let others learn from your experience, lillahi taala or just to tell the world that your are in some sort of nikmat..
May Allah bless us with whatever we have and make us feel qanaah (contented) with what we don't..
And, this is my humble response...
wkslm... thanks for reminder..
FB is an open book... so, as reader, they free to think what ever they want to think... we cannot control them.. all people are same, have time of sadness and time of happiness... as you said, what ever we do, Lillahi Taala... we cannot control what people think, but we can control our own mind, so, just think positive, whatever they share, we just take the positive, doa for the betterment of all... as my own posting, since before, friends who befriended with me know my life journey.... I try to share that.. Inna Maa'al usri Yusra.. As I try to da'wah via camera, I also use FB as Da'wah tools too... If you following me (or maybe you just have a glimps and make assumption), I always remind myself and my beloved FB reader... When life is better, say Alhamdulillah, when life is bitter, say InnaLillah... be Qanaah, be Istiqamah.. Syukur walau diuji musibah, tetap tidak kufur bila diuji anugerah.. Wassalam